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Worth Having
by Philip Gulley |
In the summer I drive around town. I like to go back to 29 Martin Drive, where we lived until I was eight years old. The maple trees my dad planted in the side yard now tower over the house.
I especially liked summers at Martin Drive. We didnt have air conditioning, so in the evenings wed sit outside on our back porch. If it were near pay day, mom would go to Johnstons IGA and buy the ingredients for homemade ice cream. Dad would sit on the back step and let us take turns cranking the handle on the blue wooden ice-cream maker. After we couldnt turn it anymore, Dad would drape a towel over the maker while the ice cream cured. As an adult I had a handcranked ice-cream maker, but I gave it away before our boys came along. Im in the market for another one. I want my kids to know the feel of turning the crank on an ice-cream maker, how it starts out easy and gets progressively harder. Its a good way to teach them how something worth having takes a little effort.
Twenty-nine Martin Drive had an eat-in kitchen, living room, one bathroom, and three bedrooms. My sister got her own bedroom since she was the only girl. We four boys shared a room until my dad added an extra room. I drive by today and marvel that seven people used to live in that house, though it didnt seem crowded at the time. Houses today are a lot bigger, and kids dont share bedrooms anymore. Im not sure thats the blessing we make it out to be.
Its a good way to teach them how something worth having takes a little effort.
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The house my wife and I live in now was built about the same time as 29 Martin Drive. Its a small house, too. Once a year, I think about buying a big, old house with a front porch and fireplace. Joan doesnt understand this. So the kids can have their privacy and we can have ours, I tell her.
She says privacy is overrated, that someday well be living in a quiet house with all kinds of privacy, longing for the days when our children were underfoot. Shes right, as usual. By then, if were blessed, well have grandchildren. Theyll come to see us every Sunday after church. If its summer, Ill teach my grandchildren how to make ice cream. Theyll ask to turn the handle, and Ill let them. When their skinny arms grow tired, Ill bend down and whisper in their ears what my daddy used to whisper in mine: Keep going, honey. Anything worth having is worth working for.
When I was younger, I thought the things worth working for were the things I could buy the big houses and shiny cars. But now I remember how love grew large in that tiny house, how joy came to visit and decided to stay.
From the book Home Town Tales: Recollections of Peace, Love, and Joy by Philip Gulley. (c) 1999 by Multnomah Pub., used by permission. Also available on audio cassette!
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