Together in Christ: 'Affirmation and Presence' — Song of Solomon 2:14

Words of tender affirmation and compliment are crucial in all loving relationships. Unfortunately, the old saying is all too true in many relationships: "I told you once that I love you, and if I change my mind, I'll let you know." The truth is, we all need to be told regularly that we are loved and claimed and that we bring those we love joy.

If God the Father knew that Jesus, His Son, needed this kind of affirmation at His baptism before He faced His trials and temptations, we need it, too. We shouldn't be surprised that God told Jesus: "You are my dearly loved Son, and you bring me great joy." ^[1] In his temptation of Jesus, Satan showed the importance of these words of affirmation from the Father to the Son. The first recorded words of temptation from the evil one were, "If you are the Son of God..." ^[2] We must affirm those we love.

In addition, we must learn to appreciate and affirm the beauty of the personal presence of family and friends who stand by us through the storms of life. Theirs is a remarkable beauty that only faithful friends and loved ones have. This kind of beauty goes much deeper than mere physical appearance. Their voice is reassuring. Their presence gladdens our hearts. Finding them nearby when we are struggling is such a relief. So, let's make sure these faithful friends and loved ones know how beautiful, pleasant, and lovely they are to us!