Together in Christ: 'Sweet Words We Need to Say!' — Philippians 1:3

Paul gives these words of tender affirmation to Christians in a good church facing a challenging time with some internal divisions. ^[1] He loved these brothers and sisters in Philippi, made a point to visit them when possible, and let them support him financially as a partner. ^[2] He also used these Macedonian believers as an example of loving sacrifice and generosity while they faced difficult trials. ^[3]

We can find faults, failings, and disappointments in every group of believers. These problems should be addressed lovingly and in the context of what they are facing. ^[4] However, Satan wants us to use some faults in congregations and in the believers who make up those congregations to "write them off" as not being viable, healthy, good churches. As part of the congregation, I share whatever problem there is with the congregation with whom I share spiritual life: The members are all flawed people just as I am! None of us has arrived at perfection, so as Jesus said, we need to get the log out of our own eyes before worrying others about the speck in theirs. ^[5] Even Paul indicated that he did not consider himself to have arrived at the place he wanted to be as a follower of Jesus. ^[6]

My point is this: We need to affirm our brothers and sisters in Christ. We need to tell them they are valued and appreciated. We should express our love for them and give them our thanks for their good deeds. The Philippians were far from perfect, but that did not stop Paul from expressing his love for them, appreciating their faithfulness, and rejoicing in his relationship with them. Just as God affirmed His relationship, love, and appreciation for His son, ^[7] we should do something similar with other believers. We can focus on catching people doing good, right, and faithful things instead of picking apart every little thing they do to find some flaw that makes us feel superior. ^[8] Bottom line: Who is someone to whom you need to say, "Every time I think of you, I give thanks to my God"? I bet they need to hear that from someone just as much as you do!